
Como Proposals · Lake Como, Italy
A Lake Como proposal,
personally created for the two of you.
Private locations, signature florals and timeless photography, personally planned by Erik & Julia of Photo of my Life.
500+ proposals · 10+ years · 5.0 ★ Google
Featured by VOX, RTL & BRIGITTE
The people behind your proposal
Personally planned. Personally present.
We are Julia and Erik, founders of Photo of my Life. For more than a decade we have photographed weddings and created proposals across Europe. At Lake Como your proposal is planned by us, not passed from one coordinator to another.
Erik is your personal contact throughout, and is there in person when the moment arrives. Julia shapes the creative direction, the florals and the details behind each proposal.
Erik
Founder · Proposal Planner · Award-Winning Wedding Photographer
Your personal contact from first message to the moment itself, and the photographer beside you on the day.
Julia
Founder · Creative Director · Proposal Designer
The creative direction behind every proposal: the design, the florals and the details that make it yours.

The photographer's eye
Designed for the moment. Planned for the photograph.
A proposal happens only once. The location, the direction of the light, the sunset, where you stand and where the photographer waits are all decided together, in advance. That is the quiet advantage of being planned by an award-winning wedding photographer of more than ten years, not only a coordinator.
Where
A place worthy of the question.
Bellagio
The pearl of the lake: cobbled lanes, cypress gardens and a view that has drawn romantics for centuries.
Varenna
Quieter and intimate: pastel houses, a lakeside promenade and light that turns golden at dusk.
Villa del Balbianello
One of the lake's most cinematic villas, its terraced gardens reaching out over the water.
On the water
A private boat on Lake Como, the surface still and the mountains rising on every side.
Private villas & gardens
A villa garden or a terrace above the water, styled and quiet for the moment itself.
Lakefront & viewpoints
Right at the water's edge, or a hidden terrace where the whole lake opens beneath you.
The settings
Choose the atmosphere. We create the moment.
How it works
Tell us your vision
Share your date, your ideas and the person you love. A short, private enquiry, nothing to labour over.
Erik plans it with you personally
You receive your private Proposal Concierge with settings, locations and personal guidance, shaped around you.
We prepare everything at Lake Como
Location, florals, music, photography, film and timing, coordinated for you and quietly kept a secret.
You bring the ring
On the day, Erik is there in person. You are fully present for the moment. We hold everything else.
One team, everything
Full-service, from first idea to the final photograph.
Proposal planning
One point of contact from the first idea to the final second on the lake.
Location scouting
Private villas, lakefront terraces, gardens, viewpoints and the water itself.
Signature florals & design
Settings built for the place, the light and your story, never off the shelf.
Photography
The moment and the hours around it, captured discreetly by a wedding photographer of 10+ years.
Film
A cinematic record of the proposal, to relive long after the day itself.
Live music
A soloist or ensemble to carry the moment, arranged to your taste.
Private boats
Arrivals and proposals from the water, subject to conditions on the day.
Champagne, dinner & extras
The celebration afterwards, considered and quietly arranged.
5.0 ★
107+ Google reviews · 500+ proposals created
Couples come to us from across the world and trust us with one of the most important moments of their lives. That trust is the measure we care about most.
Good to know
Your questions, answered.
How far in advance should we plan?
The earlier the better for the most sought-after settings and locations, though we are well used to arranging beautiful proposals at shorter notice. As soon as you have a date in mind, it is worth starting the conversation.
Will Erik personally be there on the day?
Yes. Erik is your personal contact throughout the planning and is at Lake Como in person for your proposal, coordinating the moment and photographing it as it happens.
Can everything be kept a surprise?
Discretion is at the heart of what we do. We coordinate quietly around you and your plans so the moment stays a secret until it happens.
Is photography included?
Photography is central to how we work, not an afterthought. Because Erik plans and photographs the proposal, the setting, the light and the timing are designed for the picture from the start.
Do you work with couples travelling from abroad?
Most of our couples travel to Lake Como from abroad. We guide you through every step remotely and handle everything on the ground, so you can arrive with nothing to worry about.
What happens if it rains?
We plan with the weather in mind and prepare a considered alternative wherever it matters, so a change in the sky never means a change to the feeling of the day.
Ready to create your Lake Como proposal?
Personally answered by Erik.